It's True, Self-Reflection Can Shape Who You Are

I Look Inward to Discover the Unknown Magic That Guides My Future

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September Reflections…and a bit of October too.

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…Once you have value, you MUST protect it at all costs, because if you don’t, someone will come and claim it as their own.

Why reflect? “…Who the hell are you to tell me I should reflect and even more, Reflect Often?” This is what I imagine people think when they consume my content. I reflect for my own comfort, this year’s goal, how I see my identity and embrace the fundamentals of how I do things. The key to moving forward is to look back and reflect. I reflect through my writing, coaching, and consulting and so should you. My skillset is in technology, leadership, and getting shit done. I’ll continue to build on that as I embody my consulting venture as a tech wingman in this September reflection… and well, some October too, since decisions happened.

• Get comfortable with the uncomfortable….through self-reflection

• Recommendations to make you cry.

• What is a Tech WingMan? Tech Wing Bites…whaaaa?

In my first publication, I shared my 2024 goal: “To attempt all the things I’ve considered getting into that were held back by fear.”

Part 1: Genesis of an Imposter - SinC(p1n1)

I’m still working on this goal, but I’m proud that I’ve taking some risks, and stood for something positive. I started writing here, improved my self-reflection and stood up for many who didn’t have a voice. My goal in sharing this content is to get others to think. I believe the answers to most of our questions are right in front of our faces, but we often rely too heavily on the prestigious figures’ narratives instead of truly identifying and validating what we’re advocates for.

Self Reflection - Meditation or serious thought about one’s character, actions and motives.

Yet, we choose not too. “…You can’t handle the truth” comes to mind, from “A few good men” movie. It’s like we’re afraid of who we are and why we’re here. Self-reflection has existed in our lives in many ways; through prayer, meditation, manifestation, and just embodying self. Being comfortable in your own skin means speaking and living with the utmost courage and empathy. A system is NOT a system if it does not include reflection. You are a system. I have spent countless hours wondering if there’s something else we can key on, however, I always come back to patterns that overlap the following structure:

• Dream and create a vision

• Develop tasks to move you closer toward that vision

• Reflect on your Why to ensure you’re still on the same path (reflection)

• Make adjustments and continue

“It’s always impossible until it’s done.” —Nelson Mandela

If you were interested in my tech articles they’ll now be in my new tech pub: Tech Wing Bites